I am writing this now as there is no better time for this post than this
gift-giving season.
It is 28 years since my husband took me out for the first time. Last week I received a beautiful gift in honour of that first date.
The day was in late November and the year was 1983. Really. And no, I don't remember that day like it was yesterday; we went to movies and it was not a spectacular piece of moving pictures. We have the normal kind of marriage with its ups and downs (that is the roller-coaster part) and
many, many long stretches of just everyday life (no, not boring because there is only so much of the roller-coaster part anyone can digest) that we refer to as "possujuna"- ride. All the Finns know what I mean with this but if you have not been to
Särkänniemi, "possujuna" (scroll down, it is there in the right) is a small train that is meant for ages three and under and that goes around and around on a flat surface in steady, very slow motion.
I have often thought that I love mostly romantic gifts, but who knew, I am a practical kind of girl after all. (Ok, so 28 years since that date, I am not sure about the girl-part.)
As you may remember my husband works at sea and we have been more apart than
together during these 28 years. When a
celebration happens in a time we are together, he usually surprises me somehow.
He is very good in it, way better than I am.
I have received all sorts of gifts during these years and I could
probably list 10 different ones (never yarn though) but here is my top three at the moment:
- New washer and drier. While I was having the twins, he bought to me as a surprise new washer and drier and had them installed while I was in the hospital and when I returned home with the girls, the surprise was there waiting for me. Two pieces of beautiful new white maschinery. For two years from then on, they kept going almost non-stop. Oh, how I treasured that gift. The washer was replaced already some time ago but the drier died this fall and it really felt like an end of an era.
- The second gift is a bit more romantic. When the twins turned 2 and Sonja was almost 4, he bought me a short weekend trip to Paris. The way he presented this gift was unforgettable. It was after ordinary longish day in a family with three kids under 4, when we were reading newspapers at the kitchen table after the girls were put to bed. We used to do that every day, it was such a joy to maybe drink a glass of wine, divide the paper in half and then each one of us was reading the own half. I finished my paper and there under the paper, was a map of Paris, flight tickets and money (it was long before euro). It was Tuesday night and I was due to leave on Thursday. He gave me one day to get prepared but not too long to get too worried how he could manage everything while I was away. He told me to get lots of souvenirs and all for myself. Great, great present and they had a good time while I was away.
- And now we come to the third. We have a high ceiling in some of the rooms and it is very challenging to change light bulbs and dust the ceilings to get rid of spider webs. During nearly 17 years in this house I have managed to climb almost high enough and have used settings that one is not supposed to use, like dragging a table and then putting this three-step-ladder on the table, you get the idea… It is history now because finally I have a proper tool: a sturdy ladder and oh my, what a grand ladder, it takes me high up and I can have a bucket of water up there and don't need to climb up and down every time I need to rinse the cloth. So I have been cleaning and dusting and have loved every single moment.
I have often thought that I love mostly romantic gifts, but who knew, I am a practical kind of girl after all. (Ok, so 28 years since that date, I am not sure about the girl-part.)
Wool
with you,
Lene



























